St. Valentine's Day
What do most people think of when they hear the phrase "Valentine's Day"? For a lot of people, chocolate, hearts, spending time with a girlfriend or boyfriend, watching romantic movies, et cetera. For Catholics, who remember to use the proper title of Saint Valentine, the phrase might evoke thoughts of the heroic martyr. Most consider it a strictly secular holiday, too often used for immorality and other sins. When I think of February 14th, however, memories arise. A two-day drive, the first look at the little town of Alexandria, the convent walls, a tiny chapel, the brown woolen petticoat and tunic, the double grate, the cheerfulness of a dozen women in matching habits, and a door. Two years ago, my dear sister Meredith entered the cloistered Carmel of Our Mother of Mercy and St. Joseph. People often ask me, "What is it like having a sister who is a nun?" Maybe if I write about it, I will be better able to formulate the answer that I can never come up wit...